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| Felix and Florrie Fordham (nee Key)Felix - Edward Alan Fordham, only son of George Edward Fordham and Edith Woodcock, known for most of his life as Alan or Felix (named such in adult life, because like the cartoon cat, he kept on walking) Florrie - Bridget Florence Key, daughter of Thomas Frederick Key and Mary O'Brien.
Soon after Alan's birth in 1910 the family moved to a flat in Clapham - arranged by Uncle Bob (James Robert Fordham). Alan attended the local County Primary School in Links Road, Streatham (in 1915 the headmistress of Alan's primary school was Miss Marlow) before going onto Streatham Grammar School. From 1911 until 1939 George and Edith Fordham lived at 122 Links Road, Streatham: indeed the picture of Alan and Cicely as children is taken just down the road at a photographic studio at 248 High Road, Tooting.
Alan worked for a time at Oxo, a job his father had arranged for him - he also worked there - but Alan did not enjoy the work and soon left. On his military papers in 1940 he is listed as being a Machinery Salesman.
Florrie was born on 7th April 1911 in Clonmore, Co Tipperary. and was sent
over to England in 1924, returning back to Ireland, returning permanently in
1925. More information on Florrie's parents and brother and sisters
and the scattering of the family out of Ireland to follow, She lived in England in the first instance with her Uncle and Aunt, Arthur and Bridget Finnis (nee O'Brien) in Swansea. Florrie was very close to Captain Finnis and he was known to her as 'Daddy Finnis'. Florrie soon moved to St Albans to join other members of her family - brothers and sisters - who were living near her father's sister Aunt Annie Shadbolt. It was whilst living in and around St Albans that Florrie and her sisters Lily and May befriended George Bernard Shaw - often cycling out to his house in Ayot St Lawrence. It is an interesting footnote to think about the timing of the Key family's exodus from Ireland - the Irish War of Independence followed by the Irish Civil War - and George Bernard Shaw's reputation and role as a leading voice and rallying point for Irish Nationalists in England.
Alan proposed marriage in St Patrick's Chapel, Westminster Cathedral on 2nd June 1937 and on 16th January 1938 Felix married Bridget Florence Key in St Winefred's Catholic Church, Wimbledon. The witnesses were Florrie's brother Fred Key and her best friend Anna Peacock. The best man was Donald Wade. The wedding breakfast was held at 67 Wimbledon Hill, Wimbledon - the house in which Florrie was living and working in service. When they got married Felix and Florrie lived on Balham High Road where Veronica Florence was born on 10th September 1938. However, war broke out soon after and Felix was called up. The house was badly bombed on 15th October 1940 (and was featured in a war publication) and so Florrie and Veronica were forced to move in with Alan's parents in Links Road, Tooting. This arrangement did not last for long and by January 1941 Florrie had moved with Veronica to live with Doreen Key (her brother Arthur's wife) in Braintree, Essex, where second child Adrian Edward was born on 17th January.
How long Florrie was in Braintree is unclear but by 1994 she is evacuated out to Lancashire (possibly near her Aunt and Uncle, Kate and Frank Cocks?) where her third child Alan Arthur was born on 11th November 1944 at Queen's Hydro Hotel, Clovelly.
He spoke fluent French and German and saw service in Kohn and Belsen - visiting the camp after liberation. He was discharged on 17th December 1945 - home by Christmas! It is difficult now to imagine the strain the war placed on families. Clearly it was traumatic based alone on the risk of the serving soldiers, but Felix was in a situation whereby his wife, with a young daughter, was bombed out of her house in Balham, moved in with his parents (and they didn't make her very welcome!), before she evacuated out to Essex (whilst pregnant with Adrian) and then Lancashire (where Alan was born). Throughout the war Felix kept in close and constant touch were he could sending formal army postcards, christmas telegrams and writing to the local Baptist Minister in Gloucester Road, Teddington asking him to keep a helpful and watchful eye over his wife and small children.
By 1944 Felix had arranged for the family to move to 79a High Street, Teddington - his parents and sister had moved to Gloucester Road, Teddington - and it was in this house that Felix and Florrie were to remain, never moving again. For a time after the war many British families had former German prisoners of war living with them and Felix and Florrie were no exception.
Felix worked as a Shop Assistant and Model Engineer for Basset Lowke, High Holborn, London for many years and is mentioned in the book of the history of that company. For a time Walt Disney was a personal customer of the shop and gave Felix a plain black tie on each visit - Adrian still has some of these ties. Subsequently Felix worked as a Laboratory Assistant at St George's College, Weybridge. (There was large article featuring him in the College Magazine, The Georgian).
Florrie retained a close and detailed interest and pride in her family
and kept in touch with her brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews. She
was a keen correspondent and subscribed to the Nationalist newspaper.
However she did not enjoy good health and for much of her later life was often
confined to her bed. She passed away on 13th February 1970 and was
cremated at West Middlesex Crematorium. By character Felix was regarded by family and friends as very polite and correct upright man and was a totally devoted and loving husband. The loss of Florrie in 1970 was clearly a huge blow to him and it is interesting to note that he passed away 13 years to the same day. Felix passed away on 13th February 1983 in his house, 79a High Street, Teddington and was cremated at West Middlesex Crematorium. |